Comments on: You shut your mouth when you’re talking to me! http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/ Trying to get down the aisle in one piece... Sat, 16 Oct 2010 22:41:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: MsCatalysta http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-145 MsCatalysta Sun, 13 Jul 2008 00:07:55 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=95#comment-145 Don't worry! I don't live in Buffalo anymore! I live in Columbus, OH- equally as boooring. I've never been to Texas! And I have no idea where Cereal Dieter lives! I vote for a long weekend somewhere like Chicago. where we can dance, drink, and have a grand old time! Don’t worry! I don’t live in Buffalo anymore! I live in Columbus, OH- equally as boooring. I’ve never been to Texas! And I have no idea where Cereal Dieter lives! I vote for a long weekend somewhere like Chicago. where we can dance, drink, and have a grand old time!

]]> By: thecoconutdiaries http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-144 thecoconutdiaries Sat, 12 Jul 2008 21:27:03 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=95#comment-144 BTW- Yes! I am in on a trip with you and Cereal Dieter. But we gotta go somewhere cool. There is NO way I'm going to Buffalo. BTW- Yes! I am in on a trip with you and Cereal Dieter. But we gotta go somewhere cool. There is NO way I’m going to Buffalo.

]]> By: thecoconutdiaries http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-143 thecoconutdiaries Sat, 12 Jul 2008 21:24:15 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=95#comment-143 Let's see... When you're frustrated, can you go running to relieve the frustration. Obviously you're not going to rip off your work clothes Superman-style to reveal workout clothes underneath, but at the end of the day. Running probably gives you time to rehash the day. If you are STILL upset when you are done, write it down and come up with a concrete ways you can address the frustration constructively. During "lectures" can you go all college and just take notes? This way, the writing gives you something to do with your mounting frustration and it also keeps you from missing important info. Again, it gives you the chance to revisit the topic when you're calmer. It's a little strange trying to give share an opinion when you don't have all the info. Kinda like making a cake with no eggs. Hope it helps a little, though. Let’s see… When you’re frustrated, can you go running to relieve the frustration. Obviously you’re not going to rip off your work clothes Superman-style to reveal workout clothes underneath, but at the end of the day. Running probably gives you time to rehash the day. If you are STILL upset when you are done, write it down and come up with a concrete ways you can address the frustration constructively. During “lectures” can you go all college and just take notes? This way, the writing gives you something to do with your mounting frustration and it also keeps you from missing important info. Again, it gives you the chance to revisit the topic when you’re calmer.

It’s a little strange trying to give share an opinion when you don’t have all the info. Kinda like making a cake with no eggs. Hope it helps a little, though.

]]> By: Miranda http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-142 Miranda Sat, 12 Jul 2008 02:17:07 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=95#comment-142 So why exactly are you still speaking to the person in the first place if you didn't like them in college? Unless they're valuable in your life goals and personal life - I wouldn't even bother, let alone listen to their lectures. And hey, if you ever need to vent to someone - I'm perfect for that. Most of the time, when someone calls to blow off steam on me, I usually don't know what to say so you won't get a lecture from me! I think that it's better to be able to have some way to vent rather than holding it all in and them blowing up all at the same time to someone that you never intended to blow up on to begin with. Oh dear, is this considered lecturing? Ok, I'll stop while I'm ahead. I hope everything is alright. I haven't really talked to you since before the fourth of July. We need to hang out for a bit again. And PS, I'm going to have to research this dog peeing on your stuff thing. I'm on it! So why exactly are you still speaking to the person in the first place if you didn’t like them in college? Unless they’re valuable in your life goals and personal life – I wouldn’t even bother, let alone listen to their lectures. And hey, if you ever need to vent to someone – I’m perfect for that. Most of the time, when someone calls to blow off steam on me, I usually don’t know what to say so you won’t get a lecture from me! I think that it’s better to be able to have some way to vent rather than holding it all in and them blowing up all at the same time to someone that you never intended to blow up on to begin with. Oh dear, is this considered lecturing? Ok, I’ll stop while I’m ahead.

I hope everything is alright. I haven’t really talked to you since before the fourth of July. We need to hang out for a bit again. And PS, I’m going to have to research this dog peeing on your stuff thing. I’m on it!

]]> By: MsCatalysta http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/10/you-shut-your-mouth-when-youre-talking-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-141 MsCatalysta Sat, 12 Jul 2008 01:00:21 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=95#comment-141 Well it's good to know I'm not alone in my frustration!!! Thanks so much for all the sound advice and not lectures! I heart you all! Well it’s good to know I’m not alone in my frustration!!!
Thanks so much for all the sound advice and not lectures! I heart you all!

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