Comments on: Sometimes I have multiple personalities… http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/ Trying to get down the aisle in one piece... Sat, 16 Oct 2010 22:41:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: April http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/comment-page-1/#comment-193 April Wed, 23 Jul 2008 19:21:00 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=113#comment-193 Whoa...are you the voice inside my head? Your list reads just like mine. The only thing is, I've alreday had the wedding-it was wonderful but neither the super glamourous 50,000 wedding I ignorantly dreamed of: who knew. Already married. Husband will NOT consider moving to NYC even though his boss lives there, so my list of dreams is getting smaller and smaller. I've learned that i can't control the path or direction my life takes, but that I can still dream and hope and enjoy the life I do have. Because if I had followed my list of dreams, I wouldn't have what I have now. I'd say I wouldn't trade it in the world, but I've never experienced the other side of my dreams/desires and so who knows! ;) Whoa…are you the voice inside my head? Your list reads just like mine. The only thing is, I’ve alreday had the wedding-it was wonderful but neither the super glamourous 50,000 wedding I ignorantly dreamed of: who knew. Already married. Husband will NOT consider moving to NYC even though his boss lives there, so my list of dreams is getting smaller and smaller.

I’ve learned that i can’t control the path or direction my life takes, but that I can still dream and hope and enjoy the life I do have. Because if I had followed my list of dreams, I wouldn’t have what I have now. I’d say I wouldn’t trade it in the world, but I’ve never experienced the other side of my dreams/desires and so who knows! ;)

]]> By: MsCatalysta http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/comment-page-1/#comment-184 MsCatalysta Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:21:48 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=113#comment-184 Oh my gosh that's probably the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me, Coconut! Thanks!!!! You have just made my day! Oh my gosh that’s probably the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me, Coconut! Thanks!!!! You have just made my day!

]]> By: thecoconutdiaries http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/comment-page-1/#comment-183 thecoconutdiaries Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:04:48 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=113#comment-183 I think you can have it all...you'll just have to tweek it a bit to fit into your lifetime. If you can't take 200 people to a mountain for your wedding, just have your wedding cake shaped like a mountain (or get one of those Sears photo backdrops that looks like a mountain!). Goodness know we have tons of war, poverty and disease in The States, so you can make a difference at home. If anyone can figure out a way to do it all, it'd be you. I think you can have it all…you’ll just have to tweek it a bit to fit into your lifetime. If you can’t take 200 people to a mountain for your wedding, just have your wedding cake shaped like a mountain (or get one of those Sears photo backdrops that looks like a mountain!). Goodness know we have tons of war, poverty and disease in The States, so you can make a difference at home.

If anyone can figure out a way to do it all, it’d be you.

]]> By: MsCatalysta http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/comment-page-1/#comment-182 MsCatalysta Mon, 21 Jul 2008 15:36:50 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=113#comment-182 That is excellent advice Fozmeadows and pretty much exactly what I was saying about choosing any combination and being very happy with it. Miranda- I think you just found your blog title "Severe Overachiever" - one nervous breakdown away from an ulcer." PERFECT!! That is excellent advice Fozmeadows and pretty much exactly what I was saying about choosing any combination and being very happy with it.

Miranda- I think you just found your blog title “Severe Overachiever” – one nervous breakdown away from an ulcer.” PERFECT!!

]]> By: Miranda http://mscatalysta.com/2008/07/20/sometimes-i-have-multiple-personalities/comment-page-1/#comment-181 Miranda Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:42:39 +0000 http://mscatalysta.com/?p=113#comment-181 I love that advice Foz Meadows! It's absolutely perfect! I don't think it could be impossible to include a little bit of everything into your life. It may not be exactly what you want, but it can be pretty darn close and that's what we have to love and enjoy. And sometimes, its better. Like dogs, I absolutely had to have a purebred Maltese, but I'm sure if I would have gotten a mutt, it would have been much smarter and wouldn't have a luxating patella (No, I'm not bitter in the least!) In genetic terms it's called hybrid vigor - two unrelated breeds producing a mutt with greater-than-expected qualities (Trust me people, it's not the hormones that make your meat taste better). The thing is, who cares about 20 years from now, I seriously very rarely think of it. I'm most concerned about what's happening today and what may happen tomorrow. I really want to enjoy what I have right now before its gone; I don't want any regrets. It'll all fall into place when the time comes. Of course, reminder, this is coming from a severe over-achiever who is one nervous breakdown away from a gastric ulcer. I love that advice Foz Meadows! It’s absolutely perfect!

I don’t think it could be impossible to include a little bit of everything into your life. It may not be exactly what you want, but it can be pretty darn close and that’s what we have to love and enjoy. And sometimes, its better. Like dogs, I absolutely had to have a purebred Maltese, but I’m sure if I would have gotten a mutt, it would have been much smarter and wouldn’t have a luxating patella (No, I’m not bitter in the least!) In genetic terms it’s called hybrid vigor – two unrelated breeds producing a mutt with greater-than-expected qualities (Trust me people, it’s not the hormones that make your meat taste better). The thing is, who cares about 20 years from now, I seriously very rarely think of it. I’m most concerned about what’s happening today and what may happen tomorrow. I really want to enjoy what I have right now before its gone; I don’t want any regrets. It’ll all fall into place when the time comes. Of course, reminder, this is coming from a severe over-achiever who is one nervous breakdown away from a gastric ulcer.

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